Choose Your Hard: Why Radical Ownership is the Real Manifestation Hack
Monday mornings are my sacred reset. Grocery runs, solo drives on back roads, and a non-dairy sweet cream cold brew in hand, it’s my ritual for realigning and returning to me. But this Monday was different. Between errands and baby snuggles, I received an intuitive download I had to share.
Let’s talk about radical ownership, personal truth, and why aligning your choices is the key to manifesting the life you actually want.
When the World Feels Loud
This past weekend, headlines exploded with news of President Trump ordering a bombing on Iran’s nuclear facilities. I’m not someone who actively consumes the news; I live under what I jokingly call my “Patrick Star rock.” But sometimes, events are so loud, they slip in anyway.
And while I’m not here to argue politics or morality, the moment got me thinking deeply about how we, as humans, process our beliefs and choices.
You Don’t Need to Have an Opinion on Everything
We live in a world where we’re constantly bombarded with opinions, updates, and emotions that don’t actually belong to us. And yet, we pick them up like they’re ours to carry.
But here’s the thing: You don’t have to take it all on.
What if, instead of trying to hold the weight of every world event, you focused on being 1% better than you were yesterday? What if your energy was reserved for your life, your soul, your impact?
The Power of Being Unshakeable
What struck me most about the whole situation wasn’t the politics, it was the certainty. Right or wrong, people are out here moving through life so convicted in their choices that no external opinion sways them. And while that can be dangerous in some contexts, it’s also wildly powerful when applied intentionally.
What if you trusted yourself that much?
What if you didn’t let outside voices dictate your worth, your actions, or your alignment? That’s not selfish, that’s self-responsible. And it’s the only way to live in true peace and power.
Triggered? It’s a Mirror.
If someone else’s choices, or a situation totally unrelated to you, is triggering you to the point of an emotional spiral, that’s not a punishment. That’s a gift. It’s a divine mirror showing you what still needs healing.
Instead of spiraling, ask:
Why does this upset me so much?
What is this showing me about myself?
Where have I been avoiding my own power?
You Always Have a Choice
Even in situations that feel unfair, unbearable, or out of your control, you still have a choice. Sometimes, the choices are hard, heartbreaking even. But they’re still yours.
Whether it’s:
Leaving a toxic relationship (watch Netflix’s Maid for a real-life example)
Living in a country with systems you disagree with
Choosing to spend more for better food and water
…it all comes down to this: You choose your hard.
Comfort doesn’t mean aligned. Familiar doesn’t mean safe. If you want a different outcome, you have to make different choices. And yes, that might mean stepping into discomfort. But it also means stepping into your power.
Manifestation Without Alignment is Just Noise
You can say all the affirmations you want. You can write your desires in a journal 500 times. But if your actions don’t match your words, Zaddy Universe sees that.
True manifestation requires alignment.
That means healing.
That means making different choices.
That means showing up even when it’s inconvenient.
This is why mindset work and manifestation can’t be separated, one without the other won’t get you far.
Ready to Walk the Talk?
If you’re tired of half-committing to your dreams…
If you’re craving actual transformation…
If you’re done spiraling and ready to align…
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Inside, we do the real work. We don’t just talk about the life we want, we live it. One aligned, intentional, radically honest choice at a time.
Because the most powerful thing you can do is own your story & rewrite the next chapter like your soul meant to.
See you inside. 💫
